This is another version of “birds of a feather flock together“.
We join and belong to various groupings of people because of a “pull” that seems right. Many times I am sure that you have walked into a room and FELT negative vibrations (or positive ones). Everything in the universe is ENERGY and it is all VIBRATING at various frequencies.
Each individual has their own unique vibration signature.
Here’s the question. Are you giving off LOVING and POSITIVE energy or are you a downer to be a round: maybe a stick-n-the mud? I’m all for following Puritan ethics; however, there are way too many people running around with a sourpuss demeanor, frowning at everything that they see as a moral affronts, and believe me, they have many such offendednesses (I think that’s a word).
Just let people live!
We don’t have to agree with anything that others embrace but there is one thing you might consider doing is to take a closer look at your friends. What do you see? Most probably they are just a MIRROR of you: you of them! It’s a TRIBAL thing.